I have a narrow track Waggy D44 front swapped into my ZJ. I've broken two shafts on it in about 7 years and both of those were after the axle went into the ZJ with the V8 and I was doing stuff that fell into the stupid category. That was also when I had a Dana limited slip in it. When I had it in the XJ with the 4.0 I didn't break anything. Both rigs ran 36" tires. I now have a full, selectable locker in the front and feel more confident. I think most axle shafts break when they are shock loaded such as when a spinning tire suddenly grabs traction or when a limited slip or automatic locker suddenly engages when a tire is spinning or unlocks(in the case of a posi) and all the torque is suddenly transferred to one wheel. With a selectable locker or a welded diff the torque is split evenly to each wheel and is easier on the shafts. So unless my wheels are bouncing off the ground(stupid category) or I crank the wheels hard left or right and stress a u-joint and pop its caps, I think I'll be ok with the stock shafts for now.
However if you do find a set of alloy axles I'd be interested in knowing where you got them and how much they were. Just in case I decide to venture into the stupid category again....
The rear I'm running a D60 with a welded carrier, its been thru 3 wheeling rigs and has been beat on never let me down.