problem solved  
 
 
 
bad coil.   go figure. wonder if it runs the injectors too........ must have stopped running the plugs and just fired the injectors; which flooded the muffler and cylinders....... and caused the caboom. i donno, but its running now 

  so you can have 'spark' and have a bad coil
but ya, new coil and she's running good;  even got the muffler warrantied;  

huzzah!  
thanks for all the help and ideas everyone; greatly appreciated.