Dana, sort of.... not really. You should smack whomever told you that... or, did you misinterpret?
Watch your A/C compressor when you put it in defrost. It should kick on... briefly.
Turning the A/C on dries out the air, thus helping to remove the moisture on your windshield....
The electric fan is the condenser fan for your A/C... if it doesn't come on with the Defrost/A/C you have bigger problems.
So, yes!! This is normal, and proper. Noisy as hell, aren't they? LOL!!!