I run 33" SSRs which are a VERY heavy tire with an ARB and 4.10s and I have no problems, BUT I am not a heavy foot plus I have a 4 banger. I also know a guy with an ARB, 4.56, 35" MTRs and a 4.0L and he has not broken an axle.
However, I know a few guys that have broken axles with 33" SSRs, 4.88 and a true trac.
The big thing with the D35 is how much power you give her. If you are not a very heavy foot a locker, 33s and low gears should not be a problem. If you have a heavy foot, then probably no locker and 33s MAX.