You can get a "tranny jack adaptor" from PA it's a bigger platform with adjustable pcs to chain the tranny down to, it fits onto a standard (decent sized) floor jack. I think I got mine for around $50, It's a little mickey mouse but totally does the trick, I just couldn't justify dropping $300+ for a real tranny jack and then having to store the thing 98% of the time. I would consider loaning it. You can also get the e-torx @PA they are only like $10 a set or something. The problem with any kind of tranny jack is that the vehicle has to be that much higher, i.e. high enough to get the tranny strapped to the jack in and out rather than just high enough for the tranny. When I did mine I didn't have it high enough, so coming out with the tranny and t-case together, the duo had to be removed from the tranny jack before they could come out from under. Going back in I did them one at a time (by myself!!) and didn't bother with the tranny jack. I just put the tranny on my chest, inched my way under, and benched that mofo into place...I was perhaps in a little better shape then...
One very useful tip: Even when everything is properly aligned it can still be very difficult to persuade the tranny to go that last inch or half inch. All the experts will tell you never to draw the parts together with bolts or you can damage stuff, and they are right. The trick is to use two longer bolts with the same thread as stock, one on either side, through the block and into the bellhousing. (they need to be longer so they can engage even though the tranny is an inch too far away). Thread them in as far as you can BY HAND ONLY. Then wiggle the tranny side to side and attempt to finger tighten more. Basically you just wiggle the tranny while hand tightening one side, then the other. once it is within 1/8 inch you can switch back to the proper bolts and snug it up. From my experience this is the only way to do it solo and is way easier that muscling it into place.
Good luck!
My first clutch took me about 10 hrs with help.