You were probably getting some debris into O-rings, causing a small leak once in a while.
Stan at Northridge4x4.ca should have seals for you.
I replaced both your inner seals. They should be holding, but if you sat in water they will still leak no matter what.
Hopefully you didnt damage any of the bearings with the mud.
Make sure you check the pinion for any play, and watch that the pinion seal deosnt leak.
Its common for mud to take out bearings. If you catch it fast, its not to big of a deal to do a bearing job. If you leave it, bad things can happend to the gears and locker.
Personally I would just change your fluid, check the pinion, and run it. Try not to sit stagnant in holes or your diffs will fill up.
You are doing the right thing though by coming home and tearing everything down and replacing the fluids.
I threw in regulay 80/90 for your break in period. If you want to up the fluid quality without uping your cost substancially, go to an industrial supply shop and get a 5 gallon pail of 85/140 NON synthetic for about 60 bucks.
The heavier fluid will protect the gears from shock load, and the non synthetic is better for retention on hi-pinion axles.
Dont run synthetics. Its a waste of money for your application.
Have fun with the new toy.