Im looking for a new jeep.
I know i should get manual but its a pain... Fun for a while then its a pain.
I think you have answeared your own question. It sounds like you would be happier with an Auto.
Myself, I would pick a manual transmission all the time, whenever I buy a new vehicle, I always look for a stick first off. But sometimes end up buying an Automatic.
The best choice in a jeep?? I think it is whatever you get used to.There are advantages to and disadvantages both ways. You will adjust the way you drive to the way your vehicle behaves.
Buy the vehicle that you will be happiest with in the long run
Come out on a run, maybe you will be able to talk someone in to exchanging vehicles for a while while off road, then maybe you could get a chance to "test drive" an auto and a stick.