2001 XJ, 4x4, 4.0L, Auto
I recently towed a uhaul trailer when I moved and it was the first time that I had ever done it. I bought the ball mount, ball, and pin at princess auto for like $7 and saw the same one at uhaul for $45. Anyway, when I put the ball mount inside my receiver it seems to have a lot of play to it and you can jiggle it up/down/left/right. Is this normal? When I was towing it made loud clunking noises when the trailer would balance itself front to back. Also just having the hitch on without having a trailer hooked up to it, it'll make clunks over bumps but I see other people that leave them in there all the time.
Is it normal to clunk and have that play to it or is it supposed to be a very tight fit? Why is mine loose? Is it the receiver or the ball mount?