There is no answer to this question, but here are some facts and it is ALL based on the skinny pedal
D30
1. The D30 is stronger than the D35, especially if it is HP
2. If you have chomos and stronger u-joints I have seen guys run 36 TSLs with ARB on a D30
3. The d30 can easily handle 35s
D35
1. I have seen people break a D35 will 31s and an open diff
2. I wheel with a guy that runs 35" MTRs, with 4.56s and an ARB on a D35 and has not broken an axle
3. People say not to put a locker in due to the added stress, however I believe different. Instantaneous torsional stress is what breaks axles, usually. With a locker there is a greater continous stress added to the shaft, but there is less chance for a high instantaneous stress since the axles are locked.
4. D35 axle tubes are prone to bending, which leads to broken axles.
5. I have heard the super 35 kits are good, but then make the R&P the weak spot.
6. I ran my D35 with 33 SSRs and an ARB for a season with no problem, but I am a finese driver and I realized what I had and did not push my luck.
7. Based on this info, 33s are generally the limit for the D35 if you are not hard on the skinny pedal. If you are either carry spares (both shafts) and learn how to change them or replace the axle