This is the age old question. Stick with the turdy, or swap. Once you factor in a 4340 axle shafts, locker, which ideally should be selectable for a front axle, you might as well go with the D44. Simular prices for D30 and 44 selectable lockers, 4340 shafts and higher strength u-joints. You'll save $$$ without having to buy the D30 hub bearings with bigger tires on a D44 w/ manual hubs.... Now factor in a rear axle swap to match the 5 0n 5.5 bolt pattern of the D44 or get wheel spacer/adapters for 5 on 4.5".... much info to influence decision.
Personally, I think I have made the decision to "polish the turd"....for know. I'm getting a front Aussie Locker, Yukon 4340 axle shafts, Spicer 5-760X u-joints, diff cover and truss it. I'm going to stick w/ 35's on this set up and I think I'll be OK....for the 2 times a year I actually get to wheel..... :'(
Ideally, the bigger the better. But this decision comes about once you decide if you are happy with your current set up, how hard you wheel, how many parts you break, and how many times you actually get out there... Good luck, let us know what route you go.