So, Rookie's wiring works. In fact it works just like I had it.
The dash arrows still stay lit, except when flashing normally during blinker duty.
The culprit, two-wire led's on the front. Thats why, stock harness is three-wire. So there is more "voltage sense" stuff going on than what the relay bypasses. Anytime you see me and want to know wtf I am talking about, just ask, me show.
Cheers
Chris
PS Thanks to Rookie for stopping by and talking about an hour or so to figure this all out.